(Trigger warning for uhh that word that rhymes with Obtuse! this is still new to me I'm trying to be respectful!)
So I have a lot of Infographs I share in the blanket fort, but they go into the scrolling up dimension. ( far away) And @tanukifriend inspired me to make a thread, Cause. Now that I think about it, as much as they help in the moment when someone is a little down. A thread has much more longevity and effectiveness to be seen and be helpful. So first I'm going to write some quotes that help me stay grounded, positive, and feeling safe. Keep the zest of life going, and fun ( I also want to say it's okay to not be positive as feeling bad is your internal sense that something is wrong. And I also want to say that I do not see these as concrete truths. Someone might see this as cheesy and unrealistic, and thats okay! everyone s wants and needs are different, compatibility is a major part of human social interaction. I'm just sharing my personal perspective on things! A wise lovely wizard once said " None of us know what were doing!" and theres where i'll start my first!
Words and stuff:
it's okay to not have an answer!
It's okay to not have it all together! ( thank you Dry Creek wrangler school)
Make today better than yesterday!
Reduce Suffering!
Improve Quality of life!
Getting old Isn't for wimps! ( Thank you great grandpa. I see this as playful, not actually seeing people as wimps, He was a hearty swiss farmer who immigrated from Switzerland. protect the meek![ It's me, hi, I'm meek])
Be water, my friend.
(metaphor) Emotions are the meat and potatoes of the 5 course meal that we call of life, without them, we would just be droning through life bulldozing everything.
Intimacy: Into me. see. (non romantic though it can be as I am a sappy little tree)
If someones offended by something you said, and you truly were just trying to talk or be a human, (especially if they make you feel uncomfortable or unsafe: "I didn't mean anything by it! Have a nice day!"
You don't owe somebody an answer! especially if someone is doing it in a demanding or accusatory manner. ( Context matters obvi)
People often have to talk in "blanket statements" because theres so many ramifications and data to be considered.
Girls just wanna have fun! (this is for me but everyone deserves to insert thier own word there <3 I love that song)
(ill stop here because it's late but I'll probably edit more If I remember. Thanks for listening to my ted talk! xD take it easy please don't take this topic too serious I just want to help and share. And thats how we learn! sharing is caring. Also little disclaimer just cause I don't wanna get in trouble: This is not to replace "true" professional help. But i'm in a situation where I'm too underfunded and don't have a support system outside the garden. A bit of real talk. my guardians are not emotionally equipped to be understanding of how the mental health industry has changed. I worked joe jobs after highschool and ended up hurting myself internally moving heavy loads. I was taught the reason why I can't do manual labour is because ive never done it before. (untrue. but ive been exposed to gaslighting a chunk of my developing years. the whole suck it up, buttercup mindset passed on from the earlier Post great depression, industrial revolution aftermath of modernity. Lift a load, Yes. work is good, But find what works for you! I am small, 
, and not extremely stoic and fit. like my environment has pressured me to be. We have the ability to adapt and change though! it depends on what your goal is I guess!
Also. Have a nice tune from ol' Tom Bombadil.
And now ill start posting infographs
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